If you are in a relationship in which you are being adored by your spouse, return that love. It will be a disaster not expressing your feelings towards ya spouse because a one-sided relationship brings misunderstanding e.g; when you act like you don't care when actually you do, your partner may think that you don't care at all and may start drifting.
Doing things that will betray their trust in you is like breaking a glass, even though the pieces can still be stuck back together, it will never remain the same. In every relationship, your priority should be to love and trust each other, try and also impress your partner positively.
Some people don’t know what they want, don’t value what they have and they are not contented with what they already have. Jealousy is when you count other people's blessing instead of yours, count your blessings and name them one by one. Its stupid when someone is in a relationship with a person who loves and treasures them and also appreciates every little thing they do for them but still they have the audacity to flirt & sleep around with other people!
Seriously, why dividing the love of your partner, someone who sacrifices a lot for you? Why betray someone who loves you? Why toying around with their heart? Why fool your loving partner when you know surely that you don't feel an atom of love for them? Why make your partner raise their hopes in you & plan their future with you yet you are not interested in being with them forever? Why do things that you know will hurt your partner's feelings? Why blind your partner with your sugar coated love? Why would you do stupid things that won’t strengthen your relationship?
What will you gain at the end of it all? Is it the good sex, money, luxurious earthly things, what? If it’s sex then thats myopic because sex is a temporary satisfaction. It can’t make someone have true love for you but rather lust after you & use you as a sex object for their own satisfaction. If they were not meant to be yours the good sex won’t make them love you & stay with you.
If it’s money you are up to, then you should know that money isn't everything. It can buy a bed but cant buy sleep, it cant buy sex but not love, it can buy a clock but not time, it can buy a book but not knowledge, it can buy you a position but not respect, it can buy you medicine but not health, it can buy you blood but not health so money is definitely not everything. Yeah, it can sustain your needs for a mean time but it can’t be enough & it can’t complete all your life desires.
There's nothing in this world you can compare to true love. Therefore, if you are in a relationship with someone that adores you so much, reciprocate it. Treat other people the way you will like to be treated. Because you were hurt in the past does not mean you should hurt others. You did not like it when you were hurt so why treat other people the way you disliked to be treated?
SCENARIO
A married man wanted a divorce with his wife but didn't know how to tell her. Eventually he told her. The wife expressed how hurt she was by crying out loud in his face. That night she was found on her desk doing some writing. the husband wondered what she was writing and at the same did not care. She wrote until morning and finally gave what she wrote to her husband. It was her conditions for divorce which stated that the husband should give her a month notice before divorce, carry her out of the bedroom to the exit door of their house every morning before she walks to the bus stop within the month notice because their son had exams within that month and so the wife did not want anything to distract him.
The husband did all those.
Day 1: he felt uncomfortable carrying her but managed.
Day 2: he was getting used to it
Day 3: When she leaned on his chest, he looked at her and noticed the little wrinkles on her face and pitied her
Day 4: He felt that intimacy coming back. Their son always saw his dad do that and was happy.
Day 5: His wife was looking for clothes to wear as she had grown too skinny that her clothes became too big for her. As he carried her out he felt that intimacy again just like on their wedding day and felt pity for her as she went skinny as a result of the divorce stress he caused her.
Day 6: Their son came and said "Daddy its time to carry mum out". As the wife was getting ready for work, he rushed out to his girlfriend's house to break up with her, on his way back he bought his wife flowers and wrote on it "I will carry you till death do us part". He got home and found his wife lying dead on the bed and found out that she has been struggling with cancer.
He also realised that The wife did not want the son to think that it was because of daddy that mummy died. The wife wanted the son to see a caring daddy carry his mum every morning. She loved him.
ANALYSIS
1. If the husband made out time for her, he would have found out her health problem.
2. Wrinkles are signs of old age which comes as a result of stress. If he cared for her, she wouldn't feel as much stress as she did when he did not show any care
3. If he always showed her love, she would have lived longer and treated in the hospital. she died too early because she had to work to earn income for she and her son as the husband was not doing that any more.
To maintain a good relationship, make out time for your partner always. Go out on holidays, go out on fun fares, do things together where possible. Send lovely text messages. Do things to make yourselves happy and most especially always confide in each other, it will draw you people closer until death do you part. Do not take advantage of your partner, do not judge your partner. Always be appreciative.
You will never know what you have until you lose it.
Doing things that will betray their trust in you is like breaking a glass, even though the pieces can still be stuck back together, it will never remain the same. In every relationship, your priority should be to love and trust each other, try and also impress your partner positively.
Some people don’t know what they want, don’t value what they have and they are not contented with what they already have. Jealousy is when you count other people's blessing instead of yours, count your blessings and name them one by one. Its stupid when someone is in a relationship with a person who loves and treasures them and also appreciates every little thing they do for them but still they have the audacity to flirt & sleep around with other people!
Seriously, why dividing the love of your partner, someone who sacrifices a lot for you? Why betray someone who loves you? Why toying around with their heart? Why fool your loving partner when you know surely that you don't feel an atom of love for them? Why make your partner raise their hopes in you & plan their future with you yet you are not interested in being with them forever? Why do things that you know will hurt your partner's feelings? Why blind your partner with your sugar coated love? Why would you do stupid things that won’t strengthen your relationship?
What will you gain at the end of it all? Is it the good sex, money, luxurious earthly things, what? If it’s sex then thats myopic because sex is a temporary satisfaction. It can’t make someone have true love for you but rather lust after you & use you as a sex object for their own satisfaction. If they were not meant to be yours the good sex won’t make them love you & stay with you.
If it’s money you are up to, then you should know that money isn't everything. It can buy a bed but cant buy sleep, it cant buy sex but not love, it can buy a clock but not time, it can buy a book but not knowledge, it can buy you a position but not respect, it can buy you medicine but not health, it can buy you blood but not health so money is definitely not everything. Yeah, it can sustain your needs for a mean time but it can’t be enough & it can’t complete all your life desires.
There's nothing in this world you can compare to true love. Therefore, if you are in a relationship with someone that adores you so much, reciprocate it. Treat other people the way you will like to be treated. Because you were hurt in the past does not mean you should hurt others. You did not like it when you were hurt so why treat other people the way you disliked to be treated?
SCENARIO
A married man wanted a divorce with his wife but didn't know how to tell her. Eventually he told her. The wife expressed how hurt she was by crying out loud in his face. That night she was found on her desk doing some writing. the husband wondered what she was writing and at the same did not care. She wrote until morning and finally gave what she wrote to her husband. It was her conditions for divorce which stated that the husband should give her a month notice before divorce, carry her out of the bedroom to the exit door of their house every morning before she walks to the bus stop within the month notice because their son had exams within that month and so the wife did not want anything to distract him.
The husband did all those.
Day 1: he felt uncomfortable carrying her but managed.
Day 2: he was getting used to it
Day 3: When she leaned on his chest, he looked at her and noticed the little wrinkles on her face and pitied her
Day 4: He felt that intimacy coming back. Their son always saw his dad do that and was happy.
Day 5: His wife was looking for clothes to wear as she had grown too skinny that her clothes became too big for her. As he carried her out he felt that intimacy again just like on their wedding day and felt pity for her as she went skinny as a result of the divorce stress he caused her.
Day 6: Their son came and said "Daddy its time to carry mum out". As the wife was getting ready for work, he rushed out to his girlfriend's house to break up with her, on his way back he bought his wife flowers and wrote on it "I will carry you till death do us part". He got home and found his wife lying dead on the bed and found out that she has been struggling with cancer.
He also realised that The wife did not want the son to think that it was because of daddy that mummy died. The wife wanted the son to see a caring daddy carry his mum every morning. She loved him.
ANALYSIS
1. If the husband made out time for her, he would have found out her health problem.
2. Wrinkles are signs of old age which comes as a result of stress. If he cared for her, she wouldn't feel as much stress as she did when he did not show any care
3. If he always showed her love, she would have lived longer and treated in the hospital. she died too early because she had to work to earn income for she and her son as the husband was not doing that any more.
To maintain a good relationship, make out time for your partner always. Go out on holidays, go out on fun fares, do things together where possible. Send lovely text messages. Do things to make yourselves happy and most especially always confide in each other, it will draw you people closer until death do you part. Do not take advantage of your partner, do not judge your partner. Always be appreciative.
You will never know what you have until you lose it.
